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When I think of the word healthy, I think of a state of well being; something that functions like it is suppose to; growing
and developing properly and I am sure you could add many more descriptions also. I once heard someone say that vietnamese
dating are two people who can relate to each other in a ship headed for the same destination, so here is my full definition
of healthy viet nam dating. Viet nam penpals who can relate to each other, headed towards the same destination, while growing,
developing and maturing together in a way that enhances the quality and state of single viet nam women lives. There are seven
keys that I have found personally that works together to produce healthy relationships in our lives. If love is a two way
street, you give and receive, then so is respect. There are times I think my vietnamese ladies can be concerned about the
silliest, most trivial matters in our relationship. The point is, we all feel that the vietnamese women feelings, ideas,
cares and reactions are sometimes a little silly, I'm sure my wife feels the same way about some of mine but, we respect each
other enough to accept our different concepts and manners, without being rude, insulting and inconsiderate of each other's
feelings. Something that can be difficult to gain and easily lost. Because most of us have been hurt, mistreated, mishandled,
had bad relationships, or experienced how cruel the world can be at times, our trust does not come easy or cheap. For most
of us, our trust is not gained by mere words alone but, by the proving of oneself over and again. There must be some degree
of trust in all vietnamese penpals relationships for them to grow healthy and work. If my Viet nam ladies goes out with friends
and stays late, I can allow my mind to be filled with many questions that would disturb my peace and put me in an extremely
bad mood when she returns. Did my vietnamese girls meet someone else while out? Are her friends in on her secret? While I
could begin to distrust her without cause and increase my own insecurities, I choose not to. I must be mature enough to trust
that she will keep her commitment to me whether we are together or apart, and give her room to grow without inflicting our
relationship with my own assumptions and fears unless she gives me undeniable proof to distrust viet nam girls. Because of
trust, our relationship is open, free, going strong and passionate even after many years.
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