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What we often do in laotian dating is try so hard to match our identities to the laos singles we are with that we lose
track of ourselves. What this does is make us heavily dependent upon them for everything from emotional support down, to mental
help. This actually put a great strain on the laos dating and drains the life out of the other partner by absorbing their
emotions, time, etc. When we do this, we become so dependent upon them that if we are not careful, we trap ourselves in these
relationships and can not move on even if it's not working. We are all different in many respect and our differences is what
makes unique. Believe it or not, these differences are what actually draw our laotian ladies to us, what do you think happens
when we begin to become just like them? Simple, they get bored and move on. You must like and appreciate who you are before
single laotian women will appreciate and like you. You are who you are supposed to be, so keep your own identity, that's who
those involved with you want you for. It is really funny how we simply bounce words of laotian singles and refer to it as
communication. Communication refers to listening, understanding, and responding. It is amazing that different words mean
different things to different people. You could tell your laos ladies something and mean one thing while they hear and
understand something totally different. What we often do in communicating is to listen while the other laos girls is speaking
for a space to jump in and give our own views and assessment of the situation. This not true communication. True communication
involves laotian girls addressing a particular issue while the other party listens until the first party has completely finished,
then the single laos women restates what was heard for clarification and understanding before he/she responds to that particular
issue. It is only after that issue has been addressed do we move on to another issue.
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